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I really liked the line ..sometimes I do miss the old black and white days. I was born in the age of transition. Where things started to change and left me perplexed between what to follow. The old and bad or the new good and ugly? Its still a dilemma. Sometimes I feel " oh cursed spite of mine, I was ever born to fix it" .. Still need to figure out the root. Where has it gone wrong? its a real state of chaos now. No trust is left for anyone. One feels perplexed, I can't do it but I can't stop thinking about it since other are doing as well. This habit of men and women preying on others destroys family and love. I still believe on one good rule of thumb, one a cheater always a cheater. What is it causing the men and women of this age to change the social relation ship so much. Is it individual life style that people have due to work culture? nuclear family and no one there to reconcile things in case of dispute or is it want of too many things in life that we are always desperate or is the new age art of picking that people think makes it easy to get women or is it hatred of liberal women for stereo type men who want nothing but protect there family? or is it the dowry system that makes young earning women hate old system ? or is the current style of people where powerful men ( business men, politicians, bureaucrats, actors) who demand and get easy women inspires normal people to do same. Whatever it is, we are in a very very bad age, soon we will see its effect when it becomes a pandemonium and becomes exponential and destroying life's. One great person once said "Whenever a civilization reaches the zenith, its fall is inevitable" ( I did not mention the name since it would look like a religious propaganda). Either this chaos will lead to the zenith when natural order settles in the mind of people or we are already there and waiting for disaster. Whatever it be, these are ominous signs and no good times seems coming in future. Probably we should learn from west, where there are more number of psychic people then in India and crime % is higher even though they have stricter laws and more efficient police. Its all LSD and money these days. Once Mother Teressa said "to stop all wars, men should go back and love there family" I think this applies not only to all wars but to all problems. O&O
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Hi I had just another thought. A healthy society is the one which consists of healthy people living with healthy mind. And for people to be happy and have a healthy mind, they need a healthy society and a good friend/relative circle ..dont they ?? I think this talk will eventually boil down to what we call is universal good vs bad debate? A society with healthy which has healthy individual (mind) will progress and the one with sick, depressed, full of mistrust and fear will eventually go down. In an environment where people have fear that healthy conversation will eventually lead in giving wrong signals and hitting, then its going to lead into one of the above forms of society. I think there is some wisdom in old words ... Has any one watched "tarak mehta ka oolta chasma" ...its an awesome comedy serial with lots of learning. The most intricate thing about it is the society in which they live, which gives every one feel safe and gives freedom of mind.
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